Love this! Sooo important to have some kind of no judgment zone.
I put my kids (3.5 and 22 mo.) in daycare for the first time last week. I always thought I would be a SAHM, but then I realized that I found what I want to do for the rest of my life and really wanted time to pursue that. I was struggling with the kids so much more than I used to, and I got an opportunity in an AMAZING day care.
I have learned that what I think will be best for them, might change. I really think that this situation is a thousand times better for them and for me!