22 April 2019
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. Although your question was from a few months ago, I think this could be really valuable for you. Think about if you have any aspect in your life that you are willing to give up? IS there anything you have to seemingly give up to have kids? Would you have to give it up during pregnancy or not until the baby comes? Is it a behavior, habit, or even a way of communication? Is it a lifestyle or some items you enjoy spending money on? There are so many questions. I am in the same boat. It's not about whether there is enough money, but if there was not, you will probably both say NO, not right now. Right? Maybe the more direct and valuable question is -what will we have to give up? If anything? And are we ok with that? Maybe then you will see what room there is - for a little one.