My husband and I planned on having 3 children. We just had baby #2 this summer. I have had complications both times so I am on the fence about a third child. I would love to have 3 but I don't know if I want to put my body through it again. We are focusing on our two beautiful girls, paying off debt (including the hospital bills) and then trying to sell our house and move to a bigger home/larger property. If all things work out, and I feel up to it, I may be on board for trying for #3 then. For me, listening to my body and feeling it in my heart will help me to decide.