Because if previous losses, my husband knew by 6 weeks, work knew by 9 weeks because I'm restricted when it comes to lifting, and the occasional friend/regular at work knew a bit after 9 weeks, too. I havent told anyone close or made a big social media post about it and I dont plan to until I've actually delivered. I'm very vulnerable and to make a post that something happened would kill me. I hurt with my husband privately, and that's enough comfort for me. I'm also slightly superstitious and dont want people who dont like me cheering for my downfall. I'm a couple days away from 12 weeks.
Besides, I think itll be cool to just show up with pictures one day like, yeah surprise this is my BABY!! (: