Just me, the hubby, and the midwife. If I decide that I need anyone else in the room once it begins, I will call them at that point. I have no concern for anyone else in the situation, it is a special time between me and my husband and our new baby. Delivery and your baby are not shows for people to stop by and take pictures or partake when they are unwanted, put your foot down and don't allow anyone you're not comfortable with. We are even going so far as to say that each of our parents are getting one guaranteed phone call and if they miss it, oh well. I have bad anxiety and our focus is mine and baby's health, not informing the masses that a baby is arriving. They'll find out soon enough.